Dairy 1216 Understand the meaning of Responsibility

I always thought that I am a responsible man. I am responsible for my family, responsible for my life, responsible for my words and action.

But I find that there were something not so responsible, for example, I will quit the date with friends when I feel it is bored. It seems I didn't

make anybody hurt, but exactly I have a irresponsible action when I do that. 

What is the key reason for this mind? We always feel we are responsible, but we haven't take care of each word of ourselves, each action.

It is easy to be a responsible man, if I have this habit: Think for 3 seconds before make a decision.